How to Get Out of the Friend Zone: Make Him Fall for You.

And you just can't help but fall in love with his kindness, his gentleness, and the way he smiles at you. Finally, after a long while, someone is treating you right. And then you start thinking about him every day, about how nice would it be if you were together as a couple. 

But one day, out of the blue, he suddenly tells you: "I love you, and you are like a sister to me," everything stops. Then it hits you; you are in the friend zone! 

Now don't worry, your dream love story does not have to end this way. You can still add a plot twist and make him fall for you. We can help you get out of the friend zone and into being his girl!

If your friend has not yet called you his BFF or his little sister, then you're probably still confused if he's hitting on you or he's just super friendly with you. Self-diagnosis is quite tricky for this matter, mainly because everything a guy does for you will automatically feel like it's something else, especially when you have feelings for them. So before jumping to conclusions, try to assess yourself through the following signs and see if you have really been placed in his friend zone or not.

the rest of the gang, or when he goes shopping with you and your girlfriends. But if that's the only time you spend together, then you might want to hold your horses down for a bit. If a guy is really into you, he would want to spend time with you, preferably alone. So if he hasn't asked you out yet, then you're probably just a friend to him.

You probably have heard about all the hot girls he has and is currently dating. No, it's not what you think it is; he's not trying to make you jealous or anything. He's just really comfortable with you that he can share these things with you just as how he shares something with his bros. You can only assume that there may be a spark between the both of you when he finally adds you to his "hot girls list."

One of the top indicators that a guy might like you is sexual tension. If a guy never texts you something dirty or is not that touchy with you, there's a big chance that he just sees you as a good friend, or worse, as one of his bros! When a guy sees this way, sexual tension is almost always absent. I mean, would you ever try and text your brother something sexy? No way!

Now this one is a giveaway. If you texted him and it took hours (or days!) for him to reply, sorry girl, but he's not interested. Don't even try to defend and say that "he's just busy." When a guy is too busy to text you, it means he is not willing to give you the time you deserve.

Body language is a big giveaway. If a man likes you more than a friend, he will normally move in as close to you while being respectable to prevent coming off as creepy. Eye contacts are fairly intense and want to stretch out conversations with you.

Accidental touch is almost nonexistent as they keep the boundary between you two. If it happens by accident, the guy would nervously address it to try and avoid being rude. You are certainly within friendzone if the guy is too comfortable having a skinship with you.

This needs no explaining: he's taken! If you're not his girlfriend, then you are in the friend zone. No matter how sweet you think he is towards you, if he's already someone else's man, then he's probably your generous friend.

There are lots of reasons why men put women in the friend zone. Listed below are some things that you might have done that turned him off. 

When you have been friends with a guy for a very long time, and he hasn't made a move on you, he probably already has considered you as "one of the guys." You became too familiar with him that you act a lot like his guy friends. This, in turn, will make him treat and see you like one. 

One perfect example of this is teasing. A lot of girls are so fond of teasing their guy friends, hoping that they can be "closer" to them. Little do they know that this teasing only sends them deeper to the friend zone. This act can indeed cultivate intimacy and closeness, but too much teasing will only secure you a place to the "do not date list."

If you like a guy, don't force things to happen between the two of you—generally, men like the thrill of winning women over. Being too pushy will only make him feel like you're "easy-to-get," which can be a significant turn off for him.

Unfortunately, this happens in a lot of situations, and it's not your fault. If you are just not his type, why not become his type? Find the common denominators of his previous girls and see if you find something that you can apply to yourself. A little change wouldn't hurt, right? Just make sure that you don't become pretentious, and that you prioritize and live your real self.

On a brighter side, your friend might be so attracted to you but thinks that he's not good enough. He might be one of those shy-type guys who are too afraid to tell you their feelings because he believes that you're way out of his league. 

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Be a little mysterious. Men like the mystery as much as women do. So spice up your "friendship" by acting a bit different from time to time. You can also avoid texting him about literally everything! Keep him intrigued and let him earn the right to know.

Make him feel needed; ask him to help you out with some home repairs or renovations. Instead of always doing things for him, why not make him do things for you? Studies show that people will like you more when they do favours for you. It's about allowing them to invest in you, rather than you in them.

Confessing may be one of the hardest things you can do. It requires a lot of courage, but at least you can get an answer out of it. Just prepare for the worst, since he may or may not reciprocate the feelings you have for him.

If your goal is to become the "girlfriend," then stop acting like "just a friend." That means no more teasing him too much, calling him bro, and not dressing up when you go out together! Find out how you can slowly change the way he sees you. It will most likely change the type and dynamics of the friendship you both have. 

You will find the right one someday. Rejection is the sign that you have to burn all your romantic fantasies with your friend to the ground. There is no point in fighting a dead cause; the best thing to do now is to focus on yourself.

Moving on from rejection is hard, but it can be easier if you know how to deal with it. And since we care about you, we made a list to help you out on the process:

You're heartbroken. It's okay to admit it and allow yourself to grieve. Eat, cry all night; do whatever is necessary to pour your heart out. Deal with your emotions instead of suppressing them. Go easy on yourself and let yourself heal.

Know that you don't have to go through this alone. Talk to a friend about how you feel. Your friend's presence is excellent emotional support for you, and at the same time, you will have a third-person perspective on what is going on.

Even if you have both agreed to stay friends, keeping distance may save you from further heartache. If your friend truly cares about you, he will understand. Sometimes to properly heal, you have to give each other a break. It's going to be tough at first, but it's going to be worth it.

After you have accepted and cried over the rejection, the next thing to do is to take care of yourself. Find new hobbies, learn a new skill, or travel to places you've never been to before. Focus on yourself and on improving your well-being. 

People who have faced rejection often become afraid of loving again. Don't allow yourself to miss another chance at love. Know your worth. You are amazing, and you will meet someone who will love you the way you deserve.